Brat Seavey - came into our lives on February 4, 1996 at the approximate age of 2 and left us today, October 8, 2010.
As I sit here crying with a broken heart, I know Rob and I did the bests thing for our darling Brat the Cat. Today, at 4:00, we drove her to the Cat Clinic and said our goodbyes. For all our friends who met Brat or took care of her from time to time, I know you will miss her too. She was a beautiful cat and had so many funny ways about her...... how am I ever going to look at a can of whip cream the same.
Cold, covered in ice and snow, Brat was found by my borther-in-law outside of his house during a winter storm. I originally took her in to care for her thinking since she was obviously a house cat (no claws) and that someone would soon claim her. Little did I know she would become a permanent family member for the next 14+ years. Lots of "Family Loves" and laughing took place during these past years but the last few months have been really tough. Today I found out that in human years, she was 84. Her kidneys were going, she couldn't hear and she was loosing balance and eye sight. Rob and I both knew she was in pain with all the crying and knew it was only a matter of time before she would leave us.
I kept asking Rob "Are we sure" and his response was just what I knew in my heart "it's time" Why does it hurt so much? I held her in my arms cuddling her like I always did whispering " mommy loves you" and then felt her body go limp..... I miss you already Brat... I miss you. Thank you for all the love and wonderful memories, for all the affection and tenderness, for all the laughs and especially for all the "family loves" you brought into our lives. You were and always will be the Queen of our home.
Ia'm so sorry about you cat... I know how hard and long I grieved over losing Fritz... You love them so much... Gerry K.
ReplyDeleteHugs to both you and Rob..I know its been a rough few weeks at the Seavey house....knowing it was right for her, doesnt make it any easier for you and Rob....
ReplyDeleteI know that Brat is in a better place and I know she knew that Mommy loves her .....
I'm crying with you as I read your post. Having done that earlier this year, I understand how you're feeling. And I know there will come a time when you can think about her without crying. Until then, I pray that God helps you both through your grief.
ReplyDeleteI feel your sadness as we had to say "goodbye" to our much loved "Butterscotch". Our pets are a big part of our lives and hearts. Hopefully your tears will turn to smiles as you remember your "Brat". Chanlady
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Nicki, I know how difficult this was for you and Rob. Losing Brat will leave a hole in your heart, but I know that all of the sweet memories you have of her will warm you and help you smile again.
ReplyDeleteYou rescued your sweet baby when she needed you most, and you've rescued her again from living with needless pain. That's our joy, and that's our responsibility, and we wouldn't have it any other way.
Love and healing hugs.
Carolyn said it best...You did rescue her twice...and she rescued you right back...Just think of all the love you would have missed had she not been in your life.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could come up there and give you a big hug and just sit with you.
I will keep you and Rob constant in thought as I always do.I love you so much my friend.
Dear Nicki, my heart goes out to you. When you are close to a loving family member, it doesn’t matter if your “child” has two or four legs. You grieve the same. Thankfully you have wonderful memories! Our Boomer is 15, and every time I see signs of his aging (missing a jump for example), it breaks my heart. I want to pretend the clock is not ticking.... Gentle hugs, Cathy
ReplyDeleteNickiLee, I'm so sorry about you cat....
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Oh Nicki, I am so sorry to hear about Brat. It brings tears. I think any of us that have a beloved cat or two can relate. I already told my kids...don't talk to me for 2 days.
ReplyDeleteRemember how lucky you were to have had a precious pet for all those years my friend.
Aww, Nicki, I'm just so sorry. Even though you know it was the right thing to do, that doesn't make it any easier. Sending you and Rob a big hug.
ReplyDeleteI'm saddened with you.
ReplyDelete84 cat years...that says something - she had the perfect home, the perfect family.
So sorry to read about Brat.. it is always difficult when we have to say goodbye to our beloved pets.
ReplyDeleteHugs, ivy_cottage
Piney said...I know you were concerned this summer. What a loving home you gave your furbaby, she couldn't have had better. Hugs as you look for her to round the corner.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to read about Brat. You were a good mom, and I'm sure she'll be waiting for you.
ReplyDeleteBless you for rescuing her and giving her such a loving home.
Janet (Ratkins)
Nicki, so sorry for Rob and you about Brat. You gave Brat the best years. My cat disappeared last April and we had him 8 years. He was my baby. The vet always called him the beautiful cat with the attitude!
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry about Brat I loved following her antics and will miss them. My cat patches looks alot like her. My husband and I (before he passed away ) had to put our dog to sleep we sat outside them vets and cried for a hour before we could take her in so I know how heart broken you are. Karol
ReplyDeleteI feel for you Nicki. I think we love our pets like we love our babies because they depend on us to provide for their needs and they give us unconditional love. Deciding it is time is the hardest thing to do. Big hugs, sweetie.
ReplyDeleteKerry
Many Hugs!! Pets are so much a part of our lives
ReplyDeleteNicki Lee and Rob! I celebrate the wonderful life and Love you gave to Brat Seavey! Of, course Nicki Lee and Rob, every-time you look at a can of Whip cream you will see Brats face! I mean just look at that beautiful Face you marked with Whip Cream and Snow and Ice. He Hurts because Brat is now a part of your Soul and Will protect you from the Under World That Cats Rule. Just ask ask Any true Good Egyptian Mummy!
ReplyDeleteMy Ms Patches is caring for me now. I have a bad infection. We reared my two sons together. We have plans to stay with each other forever.
Sherrie Roberts
This is the first time back to this post since I posted it... been a hard week without our baby Brat but we are sure we did what was best for her.
ReplyDeleteThank you all for your sweet and kind words - it means a lot.
Sorry to hear that you lost your beloved cat recently. Sending you good thoughts...
ReplyDeleteOh Nicki! I'm sooo very sorry... i've been away tending to my sick girl (we lost her yesterday).... I know how very had this is and hope that you will remember i'm sending you some supportive, loving hugs.....Leslie
ReplyDeleteBrat looks like my Miss Kitty who i lost last year at age 19. Still miss her. The older she got the sweeter she was but she too had problems and it was better to let her go. so, i understand perfectly how you feel
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